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Holly Woods's avatar

Absolutely love this inquiry, Tucker. I didn’t really appreciate Deep Green until I saw both of my daughters treading into the territory (tbh, in a way I never had the courage to do,) and then watched then emerge as truly consequential, relational AF, deeply-honoring and strategic in their communication and relational patterns (bc of course they also began gaining “later” skills.) In doing so, they developed relational bonds and capacities that I had skipped and seldom see in others. They’re both powerhouse young women doing important work… and could hardly agree more that the world needs more of THESE people whose focus on how they work with others to accomplish important goals is somehow more meaningful than creating a global initiative… if indeed it is all fractal. Thank you for always asking the best questions. Love you.

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Jordan Myska Allen's avatar

I love people loving people so I’m loving you loving green. Always more of that please!

I appreciate:

you naming the wave nature of development

Naming how earlier stages hijack later language and get that stage confused (eg confusing amber woke as green)

I agree there’s often an integral community shadow of not embracing green and all its gifts and beauty, (and sometimes this is orange-wanting-to-be-higher masquerading as integral, etc)

Your courage/willingness to name stages of public figures (I agree with all of them that I recognize btw, except Bayo who seems deeply construct aware to me; that said I haven’t engaged his work extensively so maybe I caught him at a peak)

That said, I think the essence of your claim is not about green/4.0 but about healthy expressions of any level.

Being around heathy good versions of red can feel amazing (power, respect, risk); amber can feel amazing (deep purpose, clarity, belonging, etc); heathy good versions of orange, etc, all lovely. I see you being frustrated by unhealthy Teal (4.5)! “Deep AF Teal” doesn’t have the allergy you’re describing.

one reason I think this distinction matters bc I basically agree with all the standard critiques of Green. It’s helpful for us to make subject-object moves-as we’ve talked abt I think a lot of us who think we’re coming from later stages are really being green; nothing wrong with it, beautiful, Deep AF green often, but let’s not pretend we’re more evolved than we are. I think maybe Wilber overdoes his pointing out shadows (bc he was personally so hurt by the green?), but then again he’s pretty viciously critical of unhealthy orange, amber etc too.

Another reason is because I think there’s a standard developmental pattern where we need to differentiate from our previous embedding and it’s ok to be a little allergic of your previous level for a little while. Ideally with some awareness and compassion, but I think giving room for this dialectical turn allows it to happen with more grace overall.

I spend a good bit of time around Green, healthy and unhealthy, and I get tired of it same way I get tired of being at a fundamentalist church even when I feel the spiritual transmission, and get tired networking and venture capital events even when I am inspired by the ambition and work ethic.

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